Saturday, October 15, 2011

Remembering the Mahatma...

THUS SPAKE MAHATMA GANDHI

CAPITAL/CAPITALISM

No doubt, capital is lifeless, but not the capitalists who are amenable to conversion. I do not regard capital to be enemy of labor.

CHARACTER

Your character must be above suspicion and you must be truthful and self controlled. The truest test of civilization, culture and dignity is character, not clothing. A language is an exact reflection of the character and growth of its speakers. Men of stainless character will easily inspire confidence and automatically purify the atmosphere around them. The real property that a parent can transmit to all equally is his or her character and educational facilities. All your scholarship would be in vain if at the same time you do not build your character and attain mastery over your thoughts and your actions.

CIVIL DISOBEDIENCE

Civil disobedience is the assertion of a right which law should give but which it denies. Civil disobedience presupposes willing obedience of our self-imposed rules, and without it civil disobedience would be cruel joke. Civil disobedience becomes a sacred duty when the State becomes lawless corrupt. Civil disobedience means capacity for unlimited suffering without the intoxicating excitement of killing. Disobedience to be civil has to be open and nonviolent. Disobedience to be civil implies discipline, thought, care, attention.

Disobedience that is wholly civil should never provoke retaliation. Non-cooperation and civil disobedience are different but branches of the same tree call Satyagraha (truth-force).

COERCION

Coercion cannot but result in chaos in the end. One who uses coercion is guilty of deliberate violence. Coercion is inhuman.

COOPERATION

Non-cooperation with evil is as much a duty as cooperation with good. Nonviolent action without the cooperation of the heart and the head cannot produce the intended result.

DEMOCRACY

Democracy necessarily means a conflict of will and ideas, involving sometimes a war to the knife between different ideas. The very essence of democracy is that every person represents all the varied interests which compose the nation. Democracy is a great institution and, therefore, it is liable to be greatly abused. Democracy is an impossible thing until the power is shared by all, but let not democracy degenerate into mobocracy. Democracy is not a state in which people act like sheep. Democracy and violence can ill go together. Evolution of democracy is not possible if we are not prepared to hear the other side. Democracy, disciplined and enlightened, is the finest thing in the world. The spirit of democracy cannot be imposed from without. It has to come from within. My notion of democracy is that under it the weakest should have the same opportunity as the strongest. To safeguard democracy the people must have a keen sense of independence, self-respect and their oneness. Intolerance, discourtesy and harshness are taboo in all good society and are surely contrary to the spirit of democracy. In true democracy every man and women is taught to think for himself or herself. The spirit of democracy cannot be established in the midst of terrorism, whether governmental or popular. Corruption and hypocrisy ought not to be inevitable products of democracy, as they undoubtedly are today.

DISCIPLINE

True discipline gives enthusiastic obedience to instructions even though they don not satisfy the reason. Conscience is the ripe fruit of strictest discipline. Unless discipline is rooted in nonviolence, it might prove a source of infinite mischief. Non-cooperation is a measure of discipline and sacrifice, and it demands respect for the opposite views.

FAITH

Faith gains in strength only when people are willing to lay down their lives for it. Faith is not like a delicate flower which would wither away the' slightest' stormy-'weather. Robust faith in oneself and brave trust of the opponent, so-called or real, is the best safeguard. A living faith cannot be manufactured by the rule of majority. What is faith if it is not translated into action? Faith is not imparted like secular subjects. It is given through the language of the heart. Every living faith must have within itself the power of rejuvenation if it is to live. Just as the body cannot exist without blood, so the soul needs matchless and pure strength of faith. Nonviolence succeeds only when we have a real living faith in God. My effort should never be to undermine another's faith but to make him a better follower of his own faith. My faith is brightest in the midst of impenetrable darkness. Nonviolence is the first article of my faith. It is also the last article of my creed.

Even as a tree has a single trunk but many branches and leaves, there is one religion -human religion- but any number of faiths.


FAST/FASTING

Fasting is an institution as old as Adam. It has been resorted to for self-purification or for some ends, noble as well as ignoble. A complete fast is a complete and literal denial of self. It is the truest prayer. A genuine fast cleanses the body, mind and soul. It crucifies the flesh and to that extent sets the soul free. What the eyes are for the outer world, fasts are for the inner My religion teaches me that whenever there is distress which one cannot remove one must fast and pray. Fear is not a disease of the body, fear kills the soul. A fear-stricken person can never know God, and one who knows God will never fear a mortal man. Where there is fear, there is not religion. It is weakness which breeds fear, and fear breeds distrust. There would be no one to frighten you if you refuse to be afraid.

For a nonviolent person, the whole world is one family. He will thus fear none, nor will others fear him. The golden rule is to act fearlessly upon what one believes to be right.

Fearlessness presupposes calmness and peace of mind.

FORCE

Love is the subtlest force in the world. The force of nonviolence is infinitely more wonderful and subtle than the material force of nature, like electricity. The truth is that God is the force. He is the essence of life. He is pure and undefiled consciousness. He is eternal. The more efficient a force is the more silent and the more subtle it is.

FREEDOM/INDEPENDENCE

Freedom is like birth. Till we are fully free, we are slaves. Freedom received through the efforts of others, however benevolent, cannot be retained when such effort is withdrawn.

No charter of freedom will be worth looking at which does not ensure the same measure of freedom for the minorities as for the majority. No society can possibly be built on a denial of individual freedom True nonviolence should mean a complete freedom from illwill and anger and hate and an overflowing love for all. This freedom from all attachment is the realization of God as Truth. I do not want my house to be walled in on sides and my windows to be stuffed. I want the cultures of all the lands to be blown about my house as freely as possible. Independence means voluntary restraints and discipline, voluntary acceptance of the rule of law. Independence of my conception means nothing less than the realization of the "Kingdom of God" within you and on this earth. Complete independence does not mean arrogant isolation or a superior disdain for all help. If it is man's privilege to be independent, it is equally his duty to be inter-dependent.

JUSTICE

Justice will come when it is deserved by our being and feeling strong. Justice does not help those who slumber but helps only those who are vigilant. Peace will not come out of a clash of arms but out of justice lived and done by unarmed nations in the face of odds.

MACHINE/MACHINERY

The supreme consideration is man. The machine should not tend to make atrophied the limbs of man. Today machinery merely helps a few to ride on the backs of millions. What I object to is the craze for machinery, not machinery as such.

MORAL FORCE/MORALITY

Moral results can only be produced by moral restraints. Moral authority is never retained by any attempt to hold on to it. It comes without seeking and is retained without effort. True morality consists not in following the beaten track, but in finding out the true path for ourselves and in fearlessly following it. To observe morality is to attain mastery over our mind and our passions. Performance of duty and observance of morality are convertible.

NONCOOPERATION

Noncooperation means refusal both to help the sinner in his sin and to accept any help or gift from him till he has repented. Noncooperation is measure of discipline and sacrifice and it demands respect for the positive views. Nonviolent noncooperation with evil means cooperation with all that is good. Noncooperation is intended to pave the way to real, honorable and voluntary cooperation based on mutual respect and trust. Noncooperation in political field is an extension of the doctrine as it is practiced in the domestic field. The avowed policy of noncooperation has been not to make political use of disputes between labor and capital. Real noncooperation is noncooperation with evil and not with the evil doer. Noncooperation is not a hymn of hate. My Noncooperation is with methods and systems, never with men. Nonviolence is the rock on which the whole structure of noncooperation is built.

PASSIVE RESISTANCE

Passive resistance is a method of securing rights by personal suffering; it is the reverse of resistance by arms. Passive resistance is an all-sided sword; it can be used anyhow; it blesses him who uses it and him against whom it is used. Passive resistance is a misnomer for nonviolent resistance. It is active than violent resistance. Passive resistance, unlike nonviolence, has no power to change men' s hearts. The sword of passive resistance does not require a scabbard. Jesus Christ, Daniel and Socrates represented the purest form of passive resistance or soul force.

PATRIOTISM

My patriotism is not an exclusive thing. It is all-embracing and I should reject that patriotism which sought to mount the distress or exploitation of other nationalities. By patriotism I mean the welfare of the whole people, if I secure it at the hands of my opponent, I should bow down my head to him.

SATYAGRAHA/SATYAGRAHI

Satyagraha is a process of educating public opinion, such that it covers all the elements of the society and makes itself irresistible. Satyagraha is a relentless search for truth and a determination to search truth. Satyagraha is an attribute of the spirit within. Satyagraha has been designed as an effective substitute for violence. The fight of Satyagraha is for the strong in spirit, not the doubter or the timid. Satyagraha teaches us the art of living as well as dying. Satyagraha, of which civil-resistance is but a part, is to me the universal law of life. Satyagraha is a law of universal application. Beginning with the family, its use can be extended to every other circle. Satyagraha can rid society of all evils, political, economic and moral. Satyagraha and civil disobedience and fasts have nothing in common with the use of force, veiled or open. A genuine satyagraha should never excite contempt in the opponent even when it fails to command regard or respect. Satyagraha thrives on repression till at last the repressor is tired and the object of satyagraha is gained. Satyagraha does not depend on the outside help, it derives all its strength from within. The method of satyagraha requires that the satyagrahi should never lose hope, so long as there is the slightest ground left for it. In the dictionary of satyagraha, there is no enemy. Since satyagraha is a method of conversion and conviction, it seeks never to use the slightest coercion. For a satyagraha brigade only those are eligible who believe in ahimsa-nonvionlence and satya-truth. Satyagraha is a force that has come to stay. No force in the world can kill it. Satyagraha does not begin and end with civil disobedience.

A clear victory of satyagraha is impossible so long as there is ill-will. Whatever may be true of other modes of warfare, in satyagraha it has been held that the causes for failure are to be sought within. What I call the law of satyagraha is to be deduced from an appreciation of duties and rights flowing there from. A satyagrahi turns the searchlight inward relentlessly to weed out all the defects that may be lying hidden there still. A satyagrahi has infinite patience, abundant faith in others and ample hope. A satyagrahi has no other stay but God, and he who has any other stay or depends on any other help cannot offer satyagraha. A satyagrahi cannot go to law for a personal wrong. A satyagrahi loves his so called enemy even as he loves his friend. He owns no enemy. A satyagrahi exhausts all other means before he resorts to satyagraha. In the code of the satyagrahi, there is no such thing as surrender to brute force.

SOCIALISM

It is my firm conviction that if the State supressed capitalism by violence, it will be caught in the coils of violence itself, and will fail to develop non-violence at any time. The State represents violence in a concentrated and organized form. The individual has a soul, but as the State is a soulless machine, it can never be weaned from violence to which it owes its very existence. I look upon an increase of the power of the State with the greatest fear, because although while apparently doing good by minimizing exploitation, it does the greatest harm to mankind by destroying individuality, which lies at the root of all progress. We know of so many cases where men have adopted trusteeship, but none where the State has really lived for the poor. "Love thy neighbor as thyself" is no counsel of perfection. The capitalist is as much a neighbor of the laborer as the latter is a neighbor of the former, and one has to seek and win the willing co- operation of the other. Nor does the principle mean that we should accept exploitation lying down. Our internal strength will render all exploitation impossible. It can be easily demonstrated that destruction of the capitalist must mean destruction in the end of the worker and as no human being is so bad as to be beyond redemption, no human being is so perfect as to warrant his destroying him whom he wrongly considers to be wholly evil.

STRONG / STRENGTH

Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.

A person who has realized the principle of nonviolence has the God-given strength for his weapon and the world has not yet known anything that can match it. A definite forgiveness would mean a definite recognition of our strength. The greater our innocence, the greater our strength and the swifter our victory. The dignity of man requires obedience to a higher law, to the strength of the spirit. If your heart acquires strength, you will be able to remove blemishes from others without thinking evil of them.

SUFFERING

Sorrow and suffering make for character if they are voluntarily borne, but not if they are imposed. True suffering does not know itself and never calculates. The only way love punishes is by suffering. The hardest heart and the grossest ignorance must disappear before the rising sun of suffering without anger and without malice.

TRUTH

Truth is what the voice within tells you. Truth is the right designation of God. Truth and nonviolence will never be destroyed. Truth is like a vast tree which yields more and more fruit the more you nurture it. Truth alone will endure, all the rest will be swept away before the tide of time. Truth and untruth often con-exist; good and evil often are found together. Truth is self-evident, nonviolence is its maturest fruit, it is contained in Truth, but is not self-evident. Every truth is self-acting and possesses inherent strength. Truth, which is permanent, eludes the historian of events. Truth transcends history. Truth and nonviolence demand that no human being may debar himself from serving any other human being, no matter how sinful he may be. Truth is the first to be sought for, and Beauty and Goodness will then be added unto you. An error does not become truth by reason of multiplied propagation, nor does truth become error because nobody sees it.

Truth without humility would be an arrogant caricature. The quest of truth involves self-suffering, sometimes even upto death. Use truth as your anvil, nonviolence as your hammer and anything that does not stand the test when it is brought to the anvil of truth and hammered with nonviolence, reject it.

UNTOUCHABILITY

God never made man that he may consider another man as an untouchable. I would far rather that Hinduism died than untouchability lived. My fight against untouchability is a fight against the impure in humanity. To say that a single human being, because of his birth, becomes an untouchable, unapproachable, or invisible, is to deny God. Anger, lust and such other evil passions ranging in the heart are the real untouchables.

WOMEN

Woman is more fitted than man to make exploration and take bolder action in nonviolence. There is no occasion for women to consider themselves subordinate or inferior to man. Woman is the companion of man, gifted with equal mental capacity. If by strength is meant moral power, then woman is immeasurably man's superior. If nonviolence is the law of our being, the future is with women. Woman, I hold, is the personification of self-sacrifice, but unfortunately today she does not realize what tremendous advantage she has over man.

Understanding The True Essence Of Spirituality

A truly spiritual person is:

One who finds a way out of the web of life without succumbing to the desires or pains that lace its path.
One who does not shun worldly duties, nor severe ties with relations.
One who does not believe in abstention merely for the sake of it, instead consciously chooses to live within prescribed means.
One whose mind cannot be coerced by force.
One who does cheer with momentary exhilaration.
One who is neither despondent nor outwardly cheerful, but maintains an even keel throughout.

A true spiritualist is one who does not shun anything, instead keeps in tune with everything.



Soulspeak

"When our eyes see our hands doing the work of our hearts, the circle of Creation is completed inside us, the doors of our souls fly open and love steps forth to heal everything in sight."
-- Michael Bridge

Do You Welcome The Morning?

Nature is equipped with tools to help all of us in our spiritual well-being. In fact, other than humans, every other living being has retained the art of natural spiritual development.

Why you ask? The answer is simple. All of us are buried in a mechanical life. Consider how we get up each morning. Most of us are harried at the start of the day itself, and get into the highest gear as soon as we get up. We go about doing our chores mechanically and on to the rest of the day.


On the other hand consider our feathered friends. The crow for instance has its own unique style. When it wakes up in the morning it doesn't just get up and fly away in search of food. Crows sleep with their feathers over their body. When it wakes up it first raises one wing and has a peek around to welcome the day. It goes back to sleep and after a few minutes it rises slowly and greets the day.


Can't we adopt this technique to condition our fast paced lives? When you wake up in the morning, pause for sometime, welcome it with a smile. Pause and meditate on its beauty. Take just a moment --- it will not disrupt the mad rush that you believe, awaits you ahead. This one moment will leave you better equipped to handle the day ahead.


Soulspeak


It is a common experience that a problem difficult at night is resolved in the morning after the committee of sleep has worked on it.

-- John Steinbeck

5 Steps to Self-Actualization

"Every human action, whether it has become positive or negative, must depend on motivation."
-- Dalai Lama

Monitoring what motivates me has helped me see how I am growing. I do things for different reasons now than I did 10 years ago. As we pay ongoing attention to our motives, we can see how both our conscious and unconscious attitudes are changing.

Here are some ways that our motives can shift with rising consciousness:
- I desire
- I want to collect things
- I want to know
- I want to serve
- I want to be

What are your motives as you participate in life?

"There are three kinds of people and three kinds of richness:
- people who want to have, to collect
- people who want action, work and labor
- people who want to be
The real richness is in be-ness. People can take all that you have, all that you collected. People can stop your labor, or an accident can stop you. When you are, you never lose what you are."
-- Torkom Saraydarian

"You are what you think. You are what you go for. You are what you do!"
-- Bob Richards

"A good intention clothes itself with power."
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

We don't change overnight. Personal growth requires persistence.

What Can GOD do with 57 Cents

A little girl stood near a small church from which she had been turned away because it was "too crowded."

"I can't go to Sunday School," she sobbed to the pastor as he walked by.

Seeing her shabby, unkempt appearance, the pastor guessed the reason and, taking her by the hand, took her inside and found a place for her in the Sunday school class. The child was so happy that they found room for her, and she went to bed that night thinking of the children who have no place to worship Jesus.

Some two years later, this child lay dead in one of the poor tenement buildings. Her parents called for the kindhearted pastor who had befriended their daughter to handle the final arrangements.

As her poor little body was being moved, a worn and crumpled red purse was found which seemed to have been rummaged from some trash dump.

Inside was found 57 cents and a note, scribbled in childish handwriting, which read: "This is to help build the little church bigger so more children can go to Sunday School."

For two years she had saved for this offering of love.

When the pastor tearfully read that note, he knew instantly what he would do. Carrying this note and the cracked, red pocketbook to the pulpit, he told the story of her unselfish love and devotion.

He challenged his deacons to get busy and raise enough money for the larger building.

But the story does not end there...

A newspaper learned of the story and published It. It was read by a wealthy realtor who offered them a parcel of land worth many thousands.

When told that the church could not pay so much, he offered to sell it to the little church for 57 cents.

Church members made large donations. Checks came from far and wide.

Within five years the little girl's gift had increased to $250, 000.00--a huge sum for that time (near the turn of the century). Her unselfish love had paid large dividends.

When you are in the city of Philadelphia , look up Temple Baptist Church , with a seating capacity of 3,300. And be sure to visit TempleUniversity, where thousands of students are educated.

Have a look, too, at the Good Samaritan Hospital and at a Sunday School building which houses hundreds of beautiful children, built so that no child in the area will ever need to be left outside during Sunday school time.

In one of the rooms of this building may be seen the picture of the sweet face of the little girl whose 57 cents, so sacrificially saved, made such remarkable history. Alongside of it is a portrait of her kind pastor, Dr. Russell H. Conwell, author of the book, "Acres of Diamonds".

This is a true story, which goes to show WHAT GOD CAN DO WITH 57 CENTS..

Friday, October 14, 2011

The value of experience



“One of the most important lessons that experience teaches is that, on the whole, success depends more upon character than upon either intellect or fortune” William Edward Hartpole Lecky

Many a time, we tend to focus more on those events that have left a scar on our psyche, have given us a bitter pill to swallow or that which has hurt us immensely. Often our immediate reaction to this is to be fearful, become risk averse and make efforts to avoid the path that lead to the unfortunate experience. While the protective mechanism that we have honed comes in handy and saves us from catastrophes, far too often we miss out on grasping opportunities for we let our bitter experiences overwhelm our pragmatism and passion. Our experiences should not deter us from pursuing a path that we have chalked out for ourselves merely because we stumbled and grazed ourselves or in extreme cases it badly scarred us.

Experiences both good and bad are the pivots around which the future is built. The good experiences reinforce our beliefs and light up our path, where as the bad experiences alert us to the pitfalls ahead, allowing us time to relook, reassess and reorganize ourselves. The important learning got from our experiences is that our attitude and reactions at every stage determine how we will traverse the journey and attain success. In effect experiences are a test of our character and our ability to deal with the situations as they unfold.

Our character evolves through our formative years and continues to transform, albeit slowly, with every passing year. It is made of a combination of factors including our hereditary traits, the childhood scripting, the experiences and interactions that have percolated deep into our psyche and our own independent thinking and attitude. A happy and disciplined upbringing often has a deep and lasting influence on character building. The role of parents, teachers, classmates and neighbors is very critical in influencing ...

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Remember: “There are no failures – just experiences and your reactions to them.” Tom Krause

Monday, September 20, 2010

The 73 Best Lessons I've Learned for Leadership Success in Business and Life



By Robin Sharma, author of the international bestseller "The Leader Who Had No Title".

1. You can really Lead Without a Title.

2. Knowing what to do and not doing it is the same as not knowing what to do.

3. Give away what you most wish to receive.

4. The antidote to stagnation is innovation.

5. The conversations you are most resisting are the conversations you most need to be having.

6. Leadership is no longer about position - but passion. It's no longer about image but impact. This is Leadership 2.0.

7. The bigger the dream, the more important to the team.

8. Visionaries see the "impossible" as the inevitable.


9. All great thinkers are initially ridiculed - and eventually revered.


10. The more you worry about being applauded by others and making money, the less you'll focus on doing the great work that will generate applause. And make you money.


11. To double your net worth, double your self-worth. Because you will never exceed the height of your self-image.


12. The more messes you allow into your life, the more messes will become a normal (and acceptable) part of your life.


13. The secret to genius is not genetics but daily practice married with relentless perseverance.

14. The best leaders lift people up versus tear people down.


15. The most precious resource for businesspeople is not their time. It's their energy. Manage it well.


16. The fears you run from run to you.


17. The most dangerous place is in your safety zone.


18. The more you go to your limits, the more your limits will expand.


19. Every moment in front of a customer is a gorgeous opportunity to live your values.


20. Be so good at what you do that no one else in the world can do what you do.


21. You'll never go wrong in doing what is right.

22. It generally takes about 10 years to become an overnight sensation.

23. Never leave the site of a strong idea without doing something to execute around it.

24. A strong foundation at home sets you up for a strong foundation at work.

25. Never miss a moment to encourage someone you work with.

26. Saying "I'll try" really means "I'm not really committed."

27. The secret of passion is purpose.

28. Do a few things at mastery versus many things at mediocrity.

29. To have the rewards that very few have, do the things that very few people are willing to do.

30. Go where no one's gone and leave a trail of excellence behind you.

31. Who you are becoming is more important than what you are accumulating.

32. Accept your teammates for what they are and inspire them to become all they can be.

33. To triple the growth of your organization, triple the growth of your people.

34. The best leaders are the most dedicated learners. Read great books daily. Investing in your self-development is the best investment you will ever make.

35. Other people's opinions of you are none of your business.

36. Change is hardest at the beginning, messiest in the middle and best at the end.

37. Measure your success by your inner scorecard versus an outer one.

38. Understand the acute difference between the cost of something and the value of something.

39. Nothing fails like success. Because when you are at the top, it's so easy to stop doing the very things that brought you to the top.

40. The best leaders blend courage with compassion.

41. The less you are like others, the less others will like you.

42. You'll never go wrong in doing what's right.

43. Excellence in one area is the beginning of excellence in every area.

44. The real reward for doing your best work is not the money you make but the leader you become.

45. Passion + production = performance.

46. The value of getting to your goals lives not in reaching the goal but what the talents/strengths/capabilities the journey reveals to you.

47. Stand for something. Or else you'll fall for anything.

48. Say "thank you" when you're grateful and "sorry" when you're wrong.

49. Make the work you are doing today better than the work you did yesterday.

50. Small daily - seemingly insignificant - improvements and innovations lead to staggering achievements over time.

51. Peak performers replace depletion with inspiration on a daily basis.

52. Take care of your relationships and the sales/money will take care of itself.

53. You can't be great if you don't feel great. Make exceptional health your #1 priority.

54. Doing the difficult things that you've never done awakens the talents you never knew you had.

55. As we each express our natural genius, we all elevate our world.
 
56. Your daily schedule reflects your deepest values.

57. People do business with people who make them feel special.


58. All things being equal, the primary competitive advantage of your business will be your ability to row Leaders Without Titles faster than your industry peers.


59. Treat people well on your way up and they'll treat you well on your way down.


60. Success lies in a masterful consistency around a few fundamentals. It really is simple. Not easy. But simple.


61. The business (and person) who tries to be everything to everyone ends up being nothing to anyone.


62. One of the primary tactics for enduring winning is daily learning.


63. To have everything you want, help as many people as you can possibly find get everything they want.


64. Understand that a problem is only a problem if you choose to view it as a problem (vs. an opportunity).


65. Clarity precedes mastery. Craft clear and precise plans/goals/deliverables. And then block out all else.


66. The best in business spend far more time on learning than in leisure.


67. Lucky is where skill meets persistence.


68. The best Leaders Without a Title use their heads and listen to their hearts.


69. The things that are hardest to do are often the things that are the best to do.


70. Every single person in the world could be a genius at something, if they practiced it daily for at least ten years (as confirmed by the research of Anders Ericsson and others).


71. Daily exercise is an insurance policy against future illness. The best Leaders Without Titles are the fittest.


72. Education is the beginning of transformation. Dedicate yourself to daily learning via books/audios/seminars and coaching.

73. The quickest way to grow the sales of your business is to grow your people.

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